Henri Leroux
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When a business trip became Istanbul

There would be other exhibitions. There would not always be another chance to be together.

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Two friends had known one another since university. Over the years, their friendship had grown to include both families. Later, life placed them in different countries and different parts of the world. They stayed close, but the easy rhythm of seeing one another had become calls, messages and the occasional carefully planned visit.

Then one of them had a business reason to travel to the other’s city: an important international exhibition for his industry. He planned to bring his wife and called his friend with the good news — business would bring them close again.

The better decision

The timing could not have been worse. His friend and family already had a long-planned holiday, with everything booked and paid for. They offered their home and, in passing, mentioned the Istanbul hotel where the family would be staying.

When the conversation ended, the visitor stopped thinking about the exhibition and started thinking about what mattered more. He and his wife quietly booked tickets to Istanbul for the same dates and chose the same hotel.

A surprise left untouched

The surprise was left untouched. Two families travelled from different parts of the world and arrived at the hotel by different routes. By chance rather than choreography, their cars reached the entrance at almost the same time, and the reunion happened while both families were still at the reception desk.

The week that followed was not built around a programme to be described or sold. It was simply a return to time together: the kind that is easy to postpone when work, distance and the calendar have the stronger voice.

A tradition of making time

That week in Istanbul became a beginning. The friends made a habit of spending at least one week together each year — ideally more — choosing a different city and country each time.

Some journeys begin with a destination, a booking or an event. Others begin when somebody decides that a friendship is worth moving the calendar for.

The most meaningful tradition can start with one quiet change of plan.

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